As a Hmong American woman I despise the phrase "ua stab ntev," meaning "be patient." I once retorted, "Be patient for what? For your man to continuously mistreat you?" No, I don't stand for that. All my life, I've seen my mother get hurt by the men who supposedly loved her. I also hear countless… Continue reading “Be Patient” (Ua Siab Ntev) For Hmong Women